People Are Pressuring Me to Have an Abortion. What Do I Do?

People Are Pressuring Me to Have an Abortion. What Do I Do?

If you just found out that you’re facing an unexpected pregnancy, you might be feeling overwhelmed. You may also have family, friends, or a partner telling you what they think you should do.

But you don’t have to make a decision just because someone is pressuring you.

Alpha Women’s Center is a safe, confidential place you can go to talk through your options. Our team will listen to your thoughts and any worries you might have, answer your questions, and give you information about each option so that you can make an informed decision.

Take as Much Time as You Need

Even if others are trying to tell you what to do, it’s okay to take a step back. Don’t let someone rush you to make a decision.

Give yourself time to process what you’re feeling. Then, when you’re ready, talk with someone about your options. You deserve to have clear, honest information.

Even if you’ve already scheduled an abortion appointment because someone told you to, you can still take a step back. It’s okay to cancel the appointment to give yourself more time to learn about your options.

If your partner is pressuring you to have an abortion, you may feel stuck or unsure of what to do. You’re not alone. If you want to learn about women who have faced similar situations, check out our past blog What Do I Do If My Partner Doesn’t Support My Pregnancy?

Best Next Steps

Even though you have a positive pregnancy test, you don’t have all the information you need before making a decision. A free ultrasound will give you more information about the pregnancy, such as letting you know how far along you are.

To learn about what to expect at an ultrasound appointment, as well as why it’s recommended to have one before making any decisions, read our past blog Why Do I Need an Ultrasound After a Positive Pregnancy Test?

How Alpha Women’s Center Can Help

Alpha Women’s Center offers a free pregnancy test in Des Moines and Ankeny and a free, limited OB ultrasound at our Ankeny location. You don’t have to have everything figured out before reaching out to us.

Our team understands the stress you might be feeling. They are not here to rush you. You can ask questions, talk through what you’re feeling, and learn about your options. To request an appointment, you can call 515-965-7885 (Ankeny), 515-285-5700 (Des Moines) or visit our website.

Disclaimer

This blog is for informational purposes only and does not constitute medical or legal advice. If you have questions about your pregnancy or an existing appointment, please consult a healthcare provider or contact our team directly.

References

Being Pressured Into Abortion? | Willow Womens Center, Willow Women’s Center, June 7, 2022